This time last week the Internet was abuzz with widespread denunciations, head-shaking, and finger-wagging over Miley Cyrus’ performance at the MTV Video Music Awards on Sunday, August 25. By all accounts, both secular and religious, it was an over-the-top, beyond the pale, unabashedly lewd performance. No, I haven’t seen the video, and won’t be seeing it. Thanks for asking, though!
I read several responses (and responses to responses) on blogs and Facebook; some were thoughtfully written, others were less helpful. “Twerking” was introduced into the vocabulary of those of us who live somewhat culturally sheltered lives. On a lighter note in this serious discussion, Cyrus’ VMA incident elicited a mention on NPR’s Wait Wait… Don’t Tell Me! on Saturday. Host Peter Sagal explained, “Twerking, for all you Public Radio listeners, is a kind of suggestive dance that’s big in the clubs right now. But, it’s the same sort of thing we’ve had for years. It’s what our parents would have called a grand mal seizure.”
I both can and can’t understand the level of response that Cyrus’ performance precipitated. First of all, anyone who willfully chooses to watch the MTV Video Music Awards has implicitly forfeited any right to be morally shocked, offended, or outraged. Don’t plead ignorance here. MTV? The VMAs? You were expecting a Scottish Highlands sword dance, maybe? Secondly, I’m confident that multitudes of conscientious, moral people intentionally viewed the performance after the fact, fully aware of the nature of the content, just so they would know exactly how upset and incensed they should be. “I can’t comment on it unless I’ve seen it!” Really? You should probably unscrew the cap on your home’s sewer clean out line just to make sure it stinks. Check it out and let me know!
Don’t misunderstand! I’m not at all questioning whether or not the performance was morally offensive. I am, however, concerned about our near constant state of moral outrage, how it is affecting our spiritual well-being, and what is being communicating to others who are “listening” to us on social media.
As if anticipating the Miley Cyrus flap, the September issue of Christianity Today features a wonderful editorial by Katelyn Beaty entitled, “Hungry for Outrage.” It is subtitled, “Indignation is the discourse du jour on the Internet. We can do better.” Below are a few excerpts.
“Call it the tart deliciousness of moral outrage. From mayors’ sex scandals to pastors’ oddball comments to judges’ incoherent rulings, we are reminded 24/7 of the extent of human folly. If anything, a nonstop news cycle gives us nonstop proof that sin pervades every person and institution.”
“When justice is dashed and human dignity is maimed, anger is our right response. But what we do with that anger is the line between wisdom and our own folly. Increasingly, it seems, many of us are using it to show our social media and blog followers that we are on the right side of contentious issues. Who knew that being offended tasted so good.”
“I wonder if at the root of our Internet outrage is the need to show that we are righteous – specifically, more righteous than others.”
God created us with the capacity for moral outrage. Such indignation serves the global village, as well as our local communities, by crying out against reigns of terror by despotic dictators, human trafficking, the insatiable greed of white-collar criminals, political corruption, senseless violent crime, and general, societal moral decay.
However, the technology of our age has created relentless exposure to an endless array of potential targets for our anger. News of evil, injustice, and immorality is instantaneously available to us from sources that literally span the globe. We can barely process one before we are informed of the next. Many websites and Internet news feeds seem to exist for the sole purpose of fueling an already raging fire, keeping us perpetually “fed up,” agitated, and primed to sound off on the matter. We are suffering from “indignation overload,” and I don’t believe that we were wired to perpetually bear that kind of emotional burden.
Because the news of events is communicated instantly, we feel compelled to respond in the same way. We have to weigh in with extreme urgency and immediacy; precious seconds are ticking away. People need to know where we stand. Our silence will be interpreted as apathy, at best, or as agreement and endorsement, at worst. The result is often a “ready, fire, aim” response which lacks the benefit of all of the facts and the helpfulness of insights that come from slowly distilled, thoughtful reflection. I know! “Ain’t nobody got time for that, Tim!”
I fear that outrage has become an addiction for many people of faith. I’m caused to wonder if certain endorphins are released when we feel anger over a just cause; an emotional, pseudo-spiritual “rush” that just keeps us coming back for more. In order for us to feel “righteous,” has it become essential that “indignation” be an inseparable companion? “God, I thank you that I am not like other people: swindlers, unjust, adulterers… twerkers.” Reread the context of Luke 18:9-14 to be reminded of why Jesus told this parable.
The more I am consumed by moral outrage, the less time I have to dwell on those things that are “true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, and of good repute; things that are excellent and worthy of praise,” (Philippians 4:8).
Last week’s outrage? That particular bubble seems to have already burst. A scan of my Facebook news feed resulted in nary a mention, and a Google search indicated that the tsunami of articles had subsided by the weekend. Oh, of course! College football was in full swing by then! Who knows what fresh outrage the coming week will bring?
I hope that there were as many prayers offered for Miley Cyrus as there were laments over the fall of Hannah Montana. In light of the accompanying bashing that was directed toward her parents, I offered a prayer of thanksgiving on behalf of the rest of us that the moral failings of our own children are not broadcast globally for public derision and condemnation. For that, we can truly be thankful.
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September 3, 2013 at 7:17 am
Brian
great stuff, still haven’t seen miley and alan thicke’s son.
“Calm down, Beavis.”
September 3, 2013 at 9:41 am
Tim Pyles
Calm down, indeed! Thanks, Brian. Somehow we’ve got it in our heads that unless tendons are popping in our necks and veins bulging in our foreheads that we’re just not serious about faith in Jesus or genuinely concerned about anything. Visited your site and I look forward to perusing your posts!
September 3, 2013 at 11:12 am
Brian
thanks!
September 3, 2013 at 7:28 am
Pastor Jane Donnelly
Phippllipians 4:8 – yes. Thank you for going deeper on this one.
September 3, 2013 at 9:43 am
Tim Pyles
Thanks, Jane! I, more than most, need to be more dedicated and devoted to the virtuous pursuits described in that text!
September 3, 2013 at 7:29 am
mtndude01
EXCELLANT Commentary
Right On Brother Tim!
September 3, 2013 at 9:47 am
Tim Pyles
Thanks for reading and for your encouragement!
September 3, 2013 at 8:08 am
Keith Brenton
Still, I wish more folks were morally outraged in an active and helpful way about war excesses, hunger/starvation, sexual and child enslavement.
September 3, 2013 at 9:54 am
Tim Pyles
Agreed, Keith! These concerns definitely deserve inclusion along with human trafficking and the other atrocities that I mentioned above. The key that you identify in your comment is to respond in “an active and helpful way.” So much of our outrage is a self-congratulatory end in itself; we feel “justified” whether or not we make any effort to pursue justice on behalf of others. Just being outraged takes no effort on our part and requires no commitment. Love, compassion, and mercy do. Thanks for your call to action.
September 3, 2013 at 9:15 am
Emma Mosby
Thanks Tim for reminding us where our thoughts should be. Satan takes control every chance we give him.
September 3, 2013 at 9:55 am
Tim Pyles
Thank you, Emma! Looking forward to having you and Richard in the Gen Fusion class this quarter.
September 3, 2013 at 9:44 am
Robert Prater
Tim,
Thanks once again for bringing such a healthy and balanced “big picture” perspective to this issue. I know I needed to be reminded with what you posted. Indeed we as Christians too often give in to the need of crying “wolf” against our culture, which is clearly lost and in need of the saving gospel of Jesus Christ, not more condemnation! I think you have addressed some very key problem – our need as Christians being more interesting in being morally outraged and showing how “righteous” we are! I loved the quote from Katelyn Beaty, “Who knew that being offended tasted so good.” Wow, did that hit too close to home for me!
And so, I was in that number of those folks who contributed some to the newsfeed blowup with a facebook post:) I did try to focus my concern on the need for Christian parents because of Miley’s vma performance, to use it as a powerful teachable moment. As I have a son and two daughters (11 and 9 years –and yes they grow up watching Hannah Montana), and so my wife and I tried to use this occasion to talk to our girls. In studying the Gospels< I've always been impressed how Jesus was the Master of creating and utilizing teachable moments. (cf. Matt. 24:2)
But we talked to our girls about the fact that Miley is no longer Hannah Montana, the little girl with the squeaky clean image on the Disney Channel they used to watch. You see, right or wrong, my girls and millions of our children met her there, and they have followed her from that place. But now she has become a totally different person. We need to help our children properly process that. We need to ask the open-ended questions to see where their head is, and if it’s in the wrong place, we need to help them arrive at a proper perspective.
Now what I am saying is not limited to Miley Cyrus’ vma performance. Anytime current events occasion teachable moments, we must use them to properly guide our children. As parents, it is our God-given duty to teach our children. We must not remain silent while the world speaks to our sons and daughters.
Anyway, I guess my concern was less geared toward the need to display some sense of "moral outrage" and more toward the need to be talking to our kids. Talking to them about sexuality and identity our call to holy living as "God's children without any faults among a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine like stars in the world." I fear too many homes and parents were silent and missed a teachable moment with their preteens and teenage kiddos.
Anyway, always love reading your thoughts! Keep up the good work! I didn't mean to comment so long!
Robert Prater
PS: I'm still looking forward one day when we can finally slow down in our busy schedules and enjoy that good lunch time fellowship:)
September 3, 2013 at 10:17 am
Tim Pyles
Great thoughts, Robert! I loved what you shared about teachable moments with your kinds; absolutely! Looking forward to lunch, too! First one’s on me!
September 3, 2013 at 11:08 am
DrueWright
Very thought provoking! Thanks for another good post.
Robert’s reply hit close to home with my “soapbox.” I get tired of hearing how our schools, our government, the media, etc. etc. are responsible for the condition our children are in today. Granted, they all play a part in our lives BUT….let’s begin in the HOME. If we are doing the very best we can in training our children in God’s way they will be ready to face the harsh realities the world has to offer. Sending them off to kindergarten that first day does not relieve us of our responsibilities. This training continues for several more years!
All of the above is not to say that proper training will always result in perfect children and a perfect family unit. Far from it! We all have problems. We all sin. We all make unwise choices. But, with all of this if we have a family who disciplines in love, who loves unconditionally, and who is there when we fall to pick us up, the world would be a better place.
I’m wondering where parents are when the children’s heroes are misbehaving. Why are we allowing some of the filth that enters our living rooms to be welcomed there. When we hear of those things (as Robert mentioned) let us be the first to use those things as teaching moments.
I’ve rambled enough for one post.
Parents, let us take back control of our families!
September 3, 2013 at 1:30 pm
Tim Pyles
Very good thoughts as always, Drue! Thanks so much for sharing your heart and your counsel. We continue to erect idols of clay and then react with astonishment when they crumble.
September 3, 2013 at 8:30 pm
Sara Bennett
You. Are. Amazing. And I definitely needed to read that.
September 3, 2013 at 9:05 pm
Tim Pyles
Grateful that it connected with you, Sara! And you are way, way, too kind!!!
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Tim Pyles
Thanks so much, Tim, for linking to this post. I continue to enjoy your insightful writing (more and more as I ponder some things anew) and the work that you put into sharing links to so many great resources each week! Blessings, brother!
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David, thanks very much for linking to this post on your website. I’m looking forward to reading and gaining from your writing. By the way, I love your Dead Sea photo!
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